Monday, March 17, 2014

To overcome loneliness

More and more people suffer from loneliness. It might be your case. The origin of this feeling of loneliness is often a difficulty to establish solid relationships, repeated setbacks in love affairs, perhaps a divorce, or simply shyness, making any relationship complicated...

The most often, solitude isn't chosen or accepted. But how could you get together in a society organised in clans or hierarchy, at the workplace and everywhere else in your daily life. Everybody has heard the expression "Be from the same world". Whom doesn't have access to one of these clans is condemned to stay outside and try to find a partner or a friend by any means possible... or stay alone!

But, solitude is a interior energy with a tendency to expand: filling every empty space in the life of the lonely until there is nothing left but the heavy feeling of solitude. Many of my clients have spoken about their solitude like it was a companion: finding it when they comes home in the evening, together wit it during the week-end, an eternal face to face with it. The crushing weight and the long monologue with one self, finally achieves to break down ones confidence, bringing about great weariness and even depression.

After a few years, or even less for the most fragile, these victims of loneliness have become introspective, tired of life, with no desires nor beliefs. When finally, a meeting occurs, often it ends with a setback. A vicious circle is in place breaking any attempt. Then comes the desire to try to work against what seems to be "fate" and one accepts just any relationship that comes by with a series of deceptions...

In reality, one of the components of love is a, sort of "witchery", an attraction by one upon the other, consciously or not, a magnetising effect. This is what favours relationships, pushing us to utilise our major assets: the eyes get animated and shiny, the body speaks its own language, even the voice sometimes changes, together creating the perfect alchemy for the attraction of love and friendship. These phenomenon, are in reality a natural magic that those suffering from solitude have lost.They no longer know how to use the magnetic force of their body, to shine and project themselves to others in an attractive way. They have forgotten that no one needs to be a beauty or "Einstein" to be attractive. They have forgotten that you only have to be yourself and to harmonise your body, mind and soul, to be able to create the mysterious alchemy capable of bringing together two people. When you doubt, you create an unbalance, an energy leakage, a weakness. Shyness, for example, is often experience as a handicap making everybody escape. The one suffering from shyness isolates him/herself for fear of being judged, almost like a halogen lamp almost extinct, even if in the middle of the room,full of people but without anybody noticing him/her. But If you can manage to intensify the light, people will no only notice but even get attracted. It is this magnetic radiance that must be brought back to be able to chase away the solitude. But how?...

So here will follow a few magical solutions. I will start with the charms, easy to implement and very efficient for targeted actions. Then you will discover the rituals, where more time and organisation is required but where the action is more profound and durable. They will be presented in a certain order: from general to particular, from easy to difficult.
If you are new to the practice of the occult arts, you should start with a charm to familiarise with the magic universe and its procedures.

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