- Why do I want to obtain this or that
particular thing?
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Does
what I want really correspond to my needs?
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Am
I entitled to want to achieve this objective?
There is good reason, before you change your
life, to carry out a rapid analysis to assess the repercussions of any
potential changes on those around you. Ask yourself if what you want to obtain
is purely for your own benefit and satisfaction, or is it also for the benefit
of other people? Experience has proved that a visualisation is more effective when
the underlying motive is based on a desire to contribute to the well-being of
others.
For example, wanting to increase your salary
or win at games of chance is not necessarily prompted by a desire to satisfy
your own personal ends. It is quite likely that an improvement in you personal
situation will have positive repercussions for the members of your family and
your friends…
It would also be unacceptable to want to
obtain something knowing that the satisfaction of your own desire would be
prejudicial to someone else. Never behave like a capricious and spoiled child
who is determined to get another child’s toy at any price. There is no need to
take anything from anyone to achieve your objectives. All you have to do is
create the right conditions.
Here is a specific example, to give you a
better idea of how to use creative visualisation to improve your quality of
life. Let’s consider visualisation applied to looking for a job, according to
the following exercise.
Begin by relaxing. When you feel
sufficiently relaxed, move on to the next stage. Choose the exact theme of your
visualisation (in this case, looking for a job). Since your objective is to
find a job, ask yourself the following questions:
- What activity sector do you want to
work in?
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Define
the annual salary you would like to earn.
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Do
you want the job you envisage to offer other advantages, other forms of
stimulation? If so, what form do these take: job satisfaction, prospects for
career development, cultural development, human relations?
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Which
area do you want to work in? Identify the job that most closely corresponds to
your ideal of life.
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