What exactly is Love?

What you need to know and bear in mind is that Love is all this and a lot more besides…it is also a source of energy, that can assume several forms: emotional, affective, romantic and sexual.

  

The domain of romantic feelings draws on a "centre of energy" situated in the pelvic area (between the coccyx and sacrum), known as the “Support of the Life Breath Centre” or the Svadhishthana Chakra.

This chakra, linked to sexual feelings and energy, is responsible for "distributing” these energies throughout the body. Furthermore, the SVADHISHTHANA CHAKRA gives rise to encounters with other people, especially the opposite sex.           

·         When the Svadhishthana Chakra is "operating” harmoniously, you are naturally open towards other people; you express your emotions and feelings spontaneously, without embarrassment, awkwardness or excessive modesty. You are joyfully aware of the vital forces of creation within you. Your enthusiasm and optimism are contagious and your magnetism attracts the opposite sex.

·         But sometimes the energy of this chakra functions in an unbalanced manner. This imbalance often originates in puberty when the awakening of sexual energy has a destabilizing effect because parents and teachers are rarely able to convey the best way of using this energy (what could be really described as sexual education).

If a person has also been starved of affection and tenderness, this can result in a subconscious rejection of romantic and sexual relationships.

This leads to a conflict between desire and "sexual energy” which cannot circulate freely and eventually results in "dormant” emotions, low self-esteem and  inhibitions. In short, life appears extremely dreary.

This type of attitude attracts solitude or the type of problems that affect the harmony of a relationship. For example, unpredictable moods, impotence or frigidity, obesity or weight-loss, inhibitions, obsessions, etc.

·         To sum up, if your love life or sex life is disappointing, unsatisfactory or even non-existant, it is probably because this energy is partially "blocked” in the area of the Svadhishthana Chakra. This creates an imbalance between giving and receiving (love, tenderness, etc).

·         By purifying and activating this chakra, you will exude a natural magnetism. Then, quite simply, you will attract affection and love and you will discover (or rediscover) a stimulating love life and sex life that will grow and devlop harmoniously.