Contrary to what people generally think, it's not always someone's good looks that inspire a strange sense of attraction, of enchantment. Experience shows that it's more the "hidden child" aspect of their personality.
Indeed you have probably noticed that people we call "born charmers" are not necessarily good-looking and may not have any remarkable qualities.
No, their looks are often quite plain (it's a well-known fact that Casanova, whose reputation as a seducer has lived on through the centuries, was not a handsome man). In short, famous charmers are far from perfect, and yet they are attractive...
How many times have you heard people say: she's not beautiful, but she has a "certain something", a kind of allure.
Where does this "certain something" come from?
From sensitivity!…
Consciously or not, a natural charmer still shows all the emotions and hidden qualities of the child they were. Those qualities that make people say:
"He's a born charmer" or
"She's a born charmer".
What makes these people so charming and seductive, is that the "hidden child" that shines through in their personality subconsciously appeals to the "hidden child" in the person who falls "under their spell".
In fact we all keep, buried deep inside us, subconscious memories of the child we once were.
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