Love, love,love...

A life without love is barren and infertile, not even worth to be lived. It is therefore understandable why men and women are struggling to find it, keep it, make it even stronger and more beautiful : the more there is love, the more there is happiness. And the accumulation of love is what makes the world a better place to live in.

But even if love is everywhere, love is still not easy to find. It is not easy to love and above all, to find someone to love you the way you would like to be loved. Moreover, if the excerpt from my book "The magic of Love" that I am presenting from now on, is devoted to the magic of romantic possession; it is because love and possession are often very closely linked together in the Western world, unlike the Eastern world where the values ​​tend towards non-attachment and more freedom for the two lovers. Our feeling towards the beloved is often exclusive, without concession, and the lovers hearts suffer from indifference or even the slightest moderation which makes them doubt.

It is indisputable, we like to possess the other and we want, in return, the total amount of passion the other is capable of. However, when this possessive attitude is not satisfied, it can bring about great suffering. A man or a woman can attain such a degree of suffering that life itself becomes unbearable because of their heartache. However, the possessing of the other is not a child's play. Of course, one must not deny ones amorous feelings : human beings are a little hunters... they like to conquer...

But one should not either, give primacy to only sex, which represents only one side of love. When one believe having met the person that one think is meant for him/her, and that this feeling is shared, then one have to try to find a balance that leads to equilibrium and satisfaction, then you have to struggle to preserve this blessed harmony. One of the magic lessons you will discover with the practice of the recipes and rituals, I will present in the following weeks, consists in the fact that one should love the other for his/her true self and for what one could bring to the relationship but also for the mirror effect the other project to us, transforming ourselves, reciprocally,into a "beloved one". This communion is one of the most beautiful things life has to offer.